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Anti-scorekeeping

A design approach that makes effort visible without treating household work as a contest between partners.

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Tiptoe on iPhone: Home, with open tasks for you and Sam side by side, what you both got done this week, overdue tasks, and what was handled today with a Thanks button.

What it looks like at home

A completion can invite a thank-you or a conversation about workload without awarding a winner for the week.

The useful distinction

Avoiding points does not mean ignoring unfairness. You can discuss repeated gaps and make a meaningful change without ranking each person's worth.

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